How long would it take you to forgive someone you felt had put your child in danger because of poor judgment?

I totally understand how you see this. He probably should've realized that you didn't wanna ruin anything and you probably really begged your friends mom not to call.. He could've took that more into consideration. I can also see why he would be that mad though. I think he shouldn't hold a grudge. Life is too short to focus all your attention on being mad at one person. But yeah, I think he should have forgiven her by now.